On the Rarity of Foreign Women and Chinese Boyfriends/Chinese Husbands

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By Corey Heller Photo Credit: Kim Hyeyoung W hat with all of the fantastic American men around, what made me choose to tie the knot with a foreigner? How about this fun, tongue-in-cheek, stereotypical rundown of some of my favorites (ignoring, of course, all of the challenges that go into an international marriage – you can find those in my post 10 Reasons Why You Should NOT Marry a Foreigner)?

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For some like myself , it’s deciding to take the streets instead of freeways home or buying sushi from the grocery store display on a Monday. For others, it’s squealing like a dolphin unprompted during sex, scaling a mountain without gear, and then rounding out the weekend by taking LSD with Alice Cooper and slaying imaginary drug dragons. I once went to a football game with a guy from an online dating website because I’m the type of person with pretty flimsy moral boundaries when it comes to free tickets to see my team play.

Before the game started, I told my date I was going to call my grandpa because his favorite team was playing, and he would like knowing I was at the game. I finished my call first and overheard my date say, “I’ll talk to you when I get home. She’s heavier than anticipated.

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Kim Hyeyoung What with all of the fantastic American men around, what made me choose to tie the knot with a foreigner? How about this fun, tongue-in-cheek, stereotypical rundown of some of my favorites ignoring, of course, all of the challenges that go into an international marriage — you can find those in my post 10 Reasons Why You Should NOT Marry a Foreigner?

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John Valentine ii What with all of the wonderful reasons why marrying a foreigner is fantastic fun see our post 10 Reasons Why You Should Marry a Foreigner , there are some definite downsides as well. Below are a few reasons for why I find international marriage difficult. Far away from family. One of us is always living far, far, far away from family and friends. There will never be a time when we are close to his family as well as mine.

Loss of holiday traditions. My husband especially feels this when Christmastime rolls around: There is nothing even close to a Weihnachtsmarkt here in Seattle and where is the smell of roasting nuts filling the air? When I lived in Germany, Thanksgiving came and went without even the sighting of a turkey, let alone family getting together to celebrate.

Things just feel a little less warm and comforting when our holiday traditions disappear. However, there are times when our cultural differences rub one another the wrong way. What if we divorce? Being that one can never know where life will lead us, if my husband and I were to divorce God forbid , I have no idea how difficult things could get. What if he wanted to move back to Germany?

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By Corey Heller Photo credit: John Valentine ii W hat with all of the wonderful reasons why marrying a foreigner is fantastic fun (see our post 10 Reasons Why You Should Marry a Foreigner), there are some definite downsides as ational marriage isn’t always filled with rolling R’s, melt-in-your-mouth chocolate, blossoming roses and “until death do us part.”.

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John Valentine ii What with all of the wonderful reasons why marrying a foreigner is fantastic fun see our post 10 Reasons Why You Should Marry a Foreigner , there are some definite downsides as well. Below are a few reasons for why I find international marriage difficult. Far away from family. One of us is always living far, far, far away from family and friends.

There will never be a time when we are close to his family as well as mine. Loss of holiday traditions.

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Not surprisingly then, most of us seek to find a romantic relationship in which we can be happy. However, should we resort to online dating for the purpose of this? Here are seven reasons why maybe we shouldn’t. We make bad decisions Internet dating sites offer us a vast array of potential date choices. Furthermore, we sign up to several sites at the same time, then the choice increases.

The luxury of this may initially seem appealing, but in reality when faced with making decisions about which item to choose from a large number, we are more prone to make erroneous decisions. This is because we invoke different and sometimes less cognitively taxing decision making strategies when choosing from a large array as with online dating than when we choose on a one to one basis in real life. The consequences are that we may end up making the wrong choice.

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